What’s school like for a 5 year old?

So, recently we marked a milestone in Mr and Mrs Dixons parenting. That being James’s first day at school. So what’s to be expected if you’re a parent and sending your child to build their future at your local primary school.

James prepares for first school day

Firstly, you should be quite prepared for a very annoying lot of messing around whilst the child “settles in”. Now in my day you dropped your little bundle of fun off at school, there were sometimes a few tears and then that was it untill you left full time eduction, possibly at university! However, nowadays things are not quite a simple. After two settling in sessions we then had four weeks (yes, you heard me right) of alternating mornings and afternoons. Now don’t get me wrong, it’s a good idea to ease things for the children so that they settle in well. Perhaps for a few days or a week, but not four weeks! There are a couple of things that I think are wrong with this:
1) It’s a nightmare to find childcare for all the bits where they are not at school.
2) After four weeks of getting used to 15 children and a series of half days they are then hit with not only full days but twice as many children as there were previously.
This cannot make sense?
Secondly, you should prepare for the fact that your child may not actually tell you anything about school. Now I don’t know how this works, perhaps something about independance, but questions go something like “what did you do at school?”… “nothing” and various varients on a theme. This continued until a non family member asked the same question whereby a load more details were revealed. Things have improved somewhat, but I still wouldn’t say that the lines of communication were fully open.
Finally, it’s harder than it was when I was at school. Well, I can’t actually remember how hard it was, but homework and reading practice is tough. Think for a second how you actually go about teaching people to read, it’s very tricky. We’re currently doing phonics, which means capital letters are out and letter sounds are in.

Now the good thing is that there are useful things such as letters sent home from the school to actually tell you what your children are learning and lots of resources in the form of games and library books etc.
So, if you’re sending a little one off to school. good luck.